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mthe moment when you realize that the system fails by the simple fact that it doesn't teach us to be human, it doesn't teach us to ask questions, it doesn't teach us to be curious, is the moment when you start to mature, to look at the world with different eyes. This is also the moment when you realize why you are the way you are, what influenced you to make certain decisions or why you have certain phobias, maybe even inexplicable until a certain moment. (e.g. speaking in public: the phobia of speaking in public can appear from the first years of school, when the teacher ridicules a student's answer or gets angry with him instead of having the patience to explain better.)

We rely on the opinion of certain blind people, without realizing that they also speak only from their perspective, from their experience, which is often limited.

How can we get over this? First of all, don't take anything for granted! Ask questions! Document yourself! Read!

By reading you can find out the experiences of tens (even hundreds) of other people, you can find out ideas that you can apply in your everyday life, simple ideas, which, by the way, you wouldn't have even thought of. Exploring the self improvement area on Amazon, a series of books written by Zoe McKey, Communication Coach and Bestselling Author, caught my attention:

Next on the list are:

Below are some passages from the books mentioned above:

I really like this feature, offered by kindle, through which you can highlight passages while reading, and then you can return to them at any time, without having to "leaf through" the entire book.

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